今天
前几天的晚上
临进入梦乡时
我突然
想起了以前的住所
我们从单层排屋搬去双层排屋
双层那间还蛮大的
但是
因为某些原因
所以才会搬到现在这个住所
好怀念双层那间住所
虽然离市区很远
离宝贝家也很远
但是
现在回想起
当年
他很清楚的知道她不合适自己，可是更确定的是他不会主动说分手。他只是耗着等着，直到有一天女生自己受不了忽冷忽热、若即若离的态度或是等到年华老去不得不下决定时，自己选择离开。
你的主动离开，我没有负心，反而是尊重与成全你的决定。
半年后发现，他居然可以跟一个只认识三个月的女生步入礼堂，令她晴天霹雳，才明白他不是不想结婚，不是真的不婚主义者，说穿了只是他不想跟你结婚!
八年的爱情长跑比不上三个月的感情。
这位故事中的男生是我的朋友，现在也已经结婚半年。当他听到刘若英的《后来》，居然会无法克制的流眼泪，想起的是他交往八年的前任女友。
为什么会难过，因为妻子身上有着前任女友的影子。他才明白其实他喜欢的就是这种类型的女孩。
可是人往往很矛盾，喜欢她的倔强与有性格，却受不了她的娇纵。喜欢她的落落大方，却受不了她的朋友一堆。
你爱她的小家碧玉，就不要怪她不够大方。
你爱她的活泼大方，就不要批评她象花蝴蝶一样。
恋爱谈的愈长，结婚的可能性就愈低，所以有时候恋爱的长度与结婚的可能性成反比。
喜新厌旧是人性，日子久了，会结婚不是为了爱情，而是责任感的驱使。婚后的他才慢慢的发现，当时的那一段感情其实不是不爱，只是时间太久了太长了，把爱情给磨掉了，
再遇到另一个女孩点燃了爱情的火苗，星星之火足以燎原，把枯竭已久的爱情给予生命，所以仓促的决定结婚。
等到真的结婚后，爱情降了温，才慢慢的发现其实妻子的身上有着许多前任女友的影子，他比较爱的人其实还是前任女友，可是他娶的却不是她。
这样的情节不知道是不是也在别处同样上演着？
学 生时代的爱情很单纯，进社会以后总想等工作稳定以后再结婚，工作稳定以后又想等有一点积蓄买车子、买房子以后再结婚，等着等着，等到爱情被时光给消磨，等 到第三者介入点燃了对方心中激 情的火苗，****不可收拾以后，曾经在年少一起织梦的理想全都抵挡不了新鲜感的激 情，所以到最后步入礼堂的都不是在一起同甘共苦、共同经历的人。
所以奉劝各位女孩子，如果对方真的是你想结婚的对象，不要想着有房子有车子有金子，有了一切再结婚。
现实是，等他有了一切，他的身价暴涨是有价值的单身贵族，他必须要面临的是更多的诱 惑，你长久以来的等待与年轻时许下的山盟海誓都难以抵挡诱 惑排山倒海的来。
就象我现在，若不嫁他，非得等到他有车子有房子还有存款时再结婚，那时新娘有极高的可能不是我。
因为要等到什么都有还要几年？
有能力的男人就象酒愈久愈香醇，女人则象面包一样有赏味期限，青春是女人的天敌。
如 果我是他，等到我三十五岁，什么都有是个有上千万身价的黄金单身汉，我并不需要一个很有能力而年过三十的女人来帮衬我，我宁可选个如花似玉，年轻貌美的女 生，也许没有什么工作能力，至少发挥了赏心悦目的功能，一个真正有能力的男人，不会在乎一个女人是否能在他的财富上加乘。
遇上对的人，莫等待莫蹉跎，也许没有房子没有车子，只要他认真上进，他就是张有潜力的积优股，早点进场获利更高。
也提醒各位男士，如果对方真的是你想好好疼爱的女人，别让她等太久，有她一起陪你奋斗应该是很美好的一件事，除非你心中有其他的想法，否则别让爱情等太久，把真爱都磨掉了！
今天看了朋友的部落
觉得似曾相似
真的衷心祝福他真的可以长久下去
真的不想再听到他的花心大罗卜的故事了
真的会让很多女生失去信心的
今天看回了我以前旧的部落
觉得现在的我蛮幸福
有他在
其他什么都变得不重要了
只要有他
就已心满意足
人 总是要经历了某些事才会成长
才会看开
我们曾经讨论过将来的事
虽然 将来的事谁也没办法预测
但是 他有这份心意
我真的已满足
=D
爱你，宝贝！
Now already Year 3 in my Uni life.......
Should feel happy? or stress?
But, I think "STRESS" will be more than happy..
After this year then we graduate..
Everyone will start their own journey to their life, definitely include me..
I don't know whatever plan of anyone...
Maybe some will stay KL for job or some will be Singapore or even their own hometown?
So, we have to appreciate the days we have..!
For me, I still don't know where I will stay for my job...
Maybe Melaka? KL?
I wish to stay Melaka actually...
But, sometimes is not us to choose the job but the job choose us..
So............ Wherever I go, I'll try my best to do well on my job in the future!
I want to work hard to earn lots for my parents to enjoy life...
Hopefully I can do this!! =)
Finally feel free to update my blog again..
Definitely feel happy when back to Melaka..
But, without the internet line make me do nothing...
Luckily my dear mom paid already~
Yesterday went to Jonker Walk with my frens Hui Qi, her bro & her bf, XinYi & my dear~
Long time din go Jonker Walk already...
Have some changes there...
But, still that hot.. =.=
Today mommy cooked "nasi lemak"...
So Yummyyyyyyyy~~ I ate 2 bowls.. LOL..
Make me now feel hungry liao.... =.=
Nvm.. Gonna slp soon....
Feel wan go trip..
Feel wan go Genting..
But.....................
Haiz.. Dunno la....
No car go.. Need to go by bus..
Some more need to book room early...
Now wan also dun hv room liao de la.. =(
Dunno when only can go leh~ ?
Just see hw loh....
今天考第二张了
终于考完两科
在这里
我要特别特别感谢一个人
Don't feel like wanna say much...
This is an event which I work on Saturday night...
This event named "Live Football Experience"...
Just share out some photo at here ^^
Nothing for me to update for my blog since so long time~~
So, now Im just upload some pic at here.. hehe^^
最近这个学期怎么好像发生很多不愉快的事呢？
难道 我真的没有朋友？
好想放弃了
但是 我知道我不能放弃
真的很讨厌这个学期
很忙很忙的功课
很忙很忙的一直在做
感觉就像永远忙不完(⊙o⊙)…
真的好想赶快过完这两个星期
真的快把我逼疯了
重新再配合过的组合
并没有想象中完美
反而 把压力也加深了
哭完了又继续哭
那又如何？
那种无助 并不是每个人都了解的
你懂吗？你能理解我们的心情吗？
帮忙下会死咩？
看下会少了一段咩？
讨论下重点也不行？
那要怎么做？
等下做错 又得重做
那为何不讨论了再做 莫名其妙
嘉莹说得对
现在的忙碌和将来的忙碌根本比不上什么
但是 这些都是我想要的吗？
我不禁迷惘了
如果我不想要 那为什么我在这里读书
如果我想要 那为什么我会有那么地不开心
我不禁想起以前的组员
想起以前的欢乐时光
现在觉得有些距离了
不知道为什么 也不想去知道
你们全部都是对的
错的是自己
自己的不努力
而跟不上你们的脚步
从来没想过怪任何人
这篇文章纯粹只想把心里话说出来
并没有针对任何人的意思
突然好想念某人
也是只有这某人能令我开心地大笑
我亲爱的你
你没在身边的日子真的难过极了~
Yesterday have a great day in sport complex of Utar.. We joined the Interaction Day which was organized by Marketing Society... Interaction Day was something like interact with others that you don't know, communicate with them, make a new network, playing station game..........
We played many games on the particular day.. It was quite interesting and we all did have a lots fun! Our team have 10 people... Included me, KYS, Clee, Benny, MH, Desmond, Yuen Howe, Grace, Brenda & Kar Hou... Our team's name is Blue Rabbit! ^^
Finally we won the champion and get a hamper...
[photo will be uploaded after I get it]
But, it's a really tired game... After I bathed out, I felt my whole energy had been fully utilized... Straight away lying on bed and have a nice, great nap...
After that, I went to dinner with KYS, Clee, Wei.. We went the food court near Ktar there... We met accounting team at the food court... At that moment, only I realized that my wallet was left at home... After dinner, I went back home to take my wallet then we went to fetch MH to have his dinner... We also asked Desmond came along with us...
Then, we went to cc played L4D2.... This is the first time playing L4D2 for me and Clee.... We are so noob.. Hahaaz... Keep dying only.... Lol... But, we have a nice tried! xD
The next station was Ghany Corner... We went there to ychar... We met the taekwando team at there... I actually don't want to order food and just planned to drink only... But, when heard Wei order for maggie goreng felt so.............. (don't know how to describe in words)
Then, I also ordered food.. --> maggie goreng kambing... Hahaz.... Quite nice!
Finally, when I reached home, felt very full and can't straight go to bed... Then I played FB, chatting online with friends, on call with dear then only went to bed... Felt whole body pain like gonna die! Aiksss~~
今天 去了一趟怡保
和笨泥，薇，MH
买到了情人节礼物
【CK Free】香水
礼物已经准备好了 ^^
但 一想起 年初一是情人节
真的很没mood
很难得 也没想过 我们可以再次度过情人节
但 为什么要在年初一呢
年初一 也不会有什么惊喜啦
没办法咯
就只好把礼物交给他就好了
反正 初一 他有他忙
而 我也有我忙
根本不会有时间庆祝的
今天看了一场电影
【Tooth Fairy】
很好笑的一部电影
可是 一回到家
整个人的心情不知为何突然很差
或许 像朋友所说的那样
自己一个人吧
好想哭噢 T_T
好了 不想了
要睡了
明天要去学校
Interaction Day
从早上8点到下午4点
又要变黑了
唉～～
可是 又很期待
***矛盾的心情***
p/s: Thank you to Benny Khor for fetching us to Ipoh!! =)
刚刚在FB上看到了这篇notes....
觉得有些还蛮对的～
哈哈哈哈～
想和朋友们分享而已.......
Already decide what to do in our assignment group... For product management, we'll used back last year we did for A&P geh product... H-ear... Hahaz... Our product can 重见光明 liao... hahaha^^
For another subject Marketing Operation, our group planned to submit a marketing plan to Nirvana... hehez.. =p
Definitely not really submit to NV lar... Just to pass up for our assignment only... This sem really will be very busy after CNY... Week 5 is CNY... Week 6 start mid term is coming... Afterthat, presentation and assignment due date is coming soon!! So, we hv to jiayou to start at first but not do it at the last min lor...
Going to hv fun on next Sat (6/2/2010)... We join Marketing Interaction Day to hv fun!!! Playing station game on tat day... So long time din play ad lor... Since after form 5.... Miss a lots those form 5 period!! At tat particular period, really never feel n knw wat is depress, sad............... and many many others feeling... So, I'm going to hv lots of fun on Sat!!!! And knw many many frens to build my network! Hahahaz~
Yay.....!! Finally get PTPTN lorr........ So happy!! ^^
Today noon went Block G cafeteria hv our lunch... Dem expensive....!! Maybe because there hv air cond ba... Hv to cover the electric bill....... Their food more expensive than Block C cafeteria.... But, their food really quite ok la... Not those thing like we can saw it everyday one....
Contact lens pre-order for my Barbies House is start ad.... Welcome babies to join the membership and collect the point to get discount... =)
Hv to start find info for my assignment lo... Ciao~ ^^
Today morning, the weather was so nice.... So cold and so nice for sleeping.... But, me have to wake up and preparing to attend the class... Today have 3 lecture class... LOL....
When I reached Eastgate of Utar, I tot today oredi canot drive in the school.... But, suddenly I saw Benny.... He are so geng.... He straight drive in but the prob is he din saw me and he just drive in without fetch me go inside.... Luckily today morning class at Block E... =)
After the morning class, me n weiwei went to Block C cafeteria to have our breakfast... Met Benny, Mun hon n Karhou... Kena munhon suan siao some more... Aiksss~ Afterthat, I decided to go to new library to have a look.... There are so big! 3 floor! NICE!!
Kahyin say wan go cc play L4D2!! But, dunno when we hv the time... We are jus simply play n we are jus new player.. So, we not dare to ask those pro to play with us.... Scare kena scold gao gao... hahaha =D
***p/s: I was so happy when I saw ur blog did mention me.... hehe^^
I'm very miss the time we hang out together.... At that moment, although we always play together like child, but it's so fun! Now, me everyday face to this wall is very very boring arh... Last time, when I do my thing till boring, I can go to ur room to kacau u....But now, me only can go to Jason their room to talk with them...
The life are so boring without you.......... Not fun at all..... I know you're busy working at there.. But, I still wish to chat with you maybe through sms... But, I can't be that selfish.. You're going training to learn for working experience.. I cannot be that selfish to disturb you.... Wish to see you soon...
Tomoro my hsemate will go to KL... So, I'll be stay alone at here... This Kampar hse..... So scary.. T_T
My classmate ask me go slp her hse at Westlake.... But, I feel wan stay here, cos with the memory of you, I can sleep comfortly....... My hsemate ask me go KL find you, but, you sure busy tomoro night... Cos there is a concert of Grasshopper at Sunway.... There is no point if I go KL.... Next week they will back Melaka... Leave me alone again..... Aiksss.... Just try tomoro night, if can't slp, just find another way.....
**Very miss you oh~~ =)
What the hell is going on in Kampar?!
Why the weather can be this hot?
Omg~~
I'm dying!!!!!!!
!@#$%^&
Can somebody help me??
Haizzzz~~
I'm so desperate with the life in Kampar....
Compare with last time, when I back home.. Will have somebody accompany me, talk with me, play with me... When i feel boring and I just need to walk over the room beside mine, and there is always somebody there to make me laugh and make my life more fun! But, now...... Don't have anymore... I have to face my problem alone this few months within this semester..... Because you are not here.. I only can meet you when CNY.... Although only one month left, but, I felt it's like one year.... T_T
**Will miss you so much !!
What a sucks timetable??
I don't like this timetable for this sem....
In between two classes, there are few hrs there let me don't know what to do...
Haizz.....
Monday
8.00-10.00am CRM (L)
12.00-2.00pm Retail Management (L)
6.00-8.00pm Mkt Operation (L)
Tuesday
12.00-2.00pm Mkt Research (L)
3.30-5.00pm Retail Management (T)
Wednesday
12.30-2.00pm Mkt Operation (T)
5.00-7.00pm Product Management (L)
Thursday
8.00-9.30am Product Management (T)
12.30-2.00pm Mkt Research (T)
Friday
2.00-3.30pm CRM (T)
** Feel tired with this timetable.....T_T
Aiksss.... Time are past so fast... This sat hv to go back to Kampar ady... T_T
Dun feel like wanna go back arhh....
Our online boutique was set up dy... I ady post to fb twice.. Post to my sis's fb oso... But, unfortunately, still dun hv any reply... lol.... Maybe still new to the market.. I need all my friends to help do promote to your friends..... Haiz....... Why is like only me incharge this boutique alone? Izit only me everyday too free, and my partners are very busy? Perhaps......... I think just see the result 1st, if everyone are not interested anymore, then jus closed it ba... Cos all seem like no mood do liao.. (This is only my own perception)...... Maybe our clothes really nothing special ba... (this is opinion from one of my fren and oso my sis)
Here hv a gud news for me oso la..... Tat's my cousin going to marry... 4th of Dec, 2010... Wow... Act my aunt say wanna ask me to do 伴娘 but scare I dun hv the time to go KL to prepare for it... So final decision I cant do her 伴娘 lor..... Aikss..... Congratulation to her !!
So fast, my dear went KL for internship ady 1++ weeks...... Hopefully this sat I can manage to meet him... hehe..... Many PR frens oso went for internship dy... Mostly at KL.... When I back to Kampar, maybe will very tak biasa....... Cos left me alone...T_T
Now ady 3 Jan 2010!!! Happy new year!!
So fast.......... My dear went to KL ady... This will be a small challenge for us.. Hopefully this few month without him beside me will be over soon......... Wish him all the best at KL and do take good care of himself.. I oso will take good care of myself..... =)
Samantha came to Melaka on 29 Dec 2009... We went to eat satay celup, went Eye On Malaysia, went sing karaoke at GoGo Ktv and so on........
